Showing posts with label Married Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Married Life. Show all posts

Thursday, March 27, 2014

Married Life: A Week in Our Lives

Married Life: Our Schedules

After we got married and returned from Jamaica, I only had six more days of work before summer break. After all of the craziness of wedding planning, it was NICE to have the summer off, not have to work or plan anything! We had 3 day weekends every weekend, as Matt has Mondays off....I mean, it really doesn't get better than that! During the summer, we continued playing volleyball, so on Tuesdays we were at Open Gym and Thursdays we were playing our games.

Fast forward to the school year starting back. Our schedules became more filled with activities and we're constantly on the go. On an average week, I work Monday through Friday, Matt works Tuesday through Friday. He gets home at varying times, depending on the day, and I typically get home between 4:45 and 5:00. On Mondays, he gets so much done around the house, or handles "fun" things, like paying bills, etc. Monday nights, I have bell choir practice. Tuesday nights, we have volleyball games. Wednesday nights, we usually have nothing. Thursday nights, we run Open Gym (every other Thursday). Friday nights we're typically dead tired, and if we go out, it's rare. haha.  Of the past 4 Fridays, we have ventured out 2 of those nights, but I promise you we were dead tired when we got home (at only 8:00 or so...).

We get a lot of comments about why we go to bed so early--we go to bed between 8:00 and 9:00 every night, including most weekend nights, too. Why? Because Matt gets up between 4:00 and 4:30 for work every morning. I know I don't have to get up that early, but once I hear his alarm and everything, it's hard for me to go back into a good sleep for another hour and a half until my alarm goes off.

Finally, it's the weekend. Weekends are sometimes filled with birthday parties, dinners, baby/bridal showers....the list goes on! With the size of our families, and the age most of our friends are at, it's not unusual to get these types of invites!  When they're not filled with all these events, they're spent doing stuff around the house...inside or outside, now. We have several "projects" in the works or being brainstormed, and we can't wait to get them all done! Of course, on Sundays, we go to church, and some times have to stay after, depending on the week. We've become more and more involved at church, taking on more responsibilities.

On top of all of this craziness, add on the training we always try to fit in (running, weight lifting, etc.--more on that in a later post coming up), the nights when we have NOTHING to do are much enjoyed! Sure, I'm known for sitting in the house while we're watching TV and saying "I'm bored," but only because I feel like I need to be doing something, because that's what I'm so used to! We didn't plan to have such busy lives, but that's what fell into our laps, so we've gone with it thus far.

So, maybe you could care less about what we do with our time every day, haha (similar to how you could probably care less about the headaches I talked about in my last post!). But I use my blog to document everything, and I'll continue to do so :)  To end this post, here's a picture of one of "Matt's birds" that he took in our backyard. Even though I hate birds, we do have a lot of pretty colored birds. But you can bet your bottom dollar I won't near them!!


Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Married Life: Meal Planning, Grocery Shopping & Fuel Perks

I know..this title sounds so exciting already. haha.

When it comes to shopping, I'm always looking for a good deal! Red tags and Clearance sections are my best friends in a store (especially Target!), outlet and factory stores are amazing, and I love coupons!  I RARELY by anything for full price.

When buying our food and drinks to have at the house, I wouldn't say that Matt and I are cheap.  I would just say we use our money in the most reasonable ways possible for us. {I realize it's not the same for everyone.}  Instead of spending roughly $100.00 a week eating out every night, we spend almost $100.00 a week to buy everything we need for breakfasts, lunches, dinners, and snacks for the week + whatever we might need, like paper towels, toilet paper, laundry detergent, etc.  But those last few things aren't every week purchases.

On Sunday afternoons, we'll figure out what we want to have for dinner each night of the week.  From there, we see what meats we need to buy, what side dishes we want to have, etc.  I use the same notebook every week to write our grocery list down.  The left side of the page is designated for what we need to buy, and the right side of the page is our dinner plan.  {After we get home from shopping, I cut out the dinner plan and keep it on the fridge for the week!}

We do ALL of our grocery shopping at Martin's.  After making our list, we'll make sure we have a Sunday paper with a Martin's ad and go through to see what deals there are

Monday, September 2, 2013

Married Life: Adjusting to new schedules

Once we were married, we knew that we'd have to get adjusted to each others' schedules and would have to figure out a schedule that works for us.  Actually, we had been thinking about this long before the wedding, as our work hours were drastically different.

For those of you who don't know, Matt wakes up at 4:30 for work and is gone before the sun comes up.  Because we're in the same room, his two alarms naturally wake me up, as they should.  They're just doing their job.  Most mornings, after we both wake up, and he gets ready for work as I stay laying in bed, I'm usually up for the day.  Over the summer, that was fine, because I didn't have a set schedule, as I had the summer off.  Now that I'm back at work, it's sometimes a problem.  I'm now waking up about two hours earlier than I need to be, to have an adequate amount of time to get ready.  However, I do get out of bed earlier intentionally, so that I don't have to rush, I can finish packing my lunch if I need to, and to make sure my blog post is up for the day ;)